Lets face it, most guys like to be the dominant one in relationships. Now lets not get into the whole feminist, "woman-go-make-me-a-sandwich", chivalry debate. Not the blog I am writing about right now. All I'm saying is they like to feel like they are in control, it's human nature.
Now with that being said, us ladies can use this to our complete advantage. So it didn't work out with the last douchebag I mean guy. But you know what, in the words of Jay-Z, "I'm on to the next one, on to the next one".
After my week (or so) of sulking and annoying my friends to the point of phone-number-deletion-due-to-incessant-drunk-calling-to-the-guy, I stumbled upon this quote from one of my favorite chick flicks He's Just Not that Into You:
"if a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen, no matter what"
and just like that it hit me like a ton of bricks: if he really wanted to be with me, he would do anything (or most normal-average-culturally-accepted) things to be with me, to contact me, to get a hold of me.
so the next time I decide to let my guard down again, I wont do any work in trying to build a stable relationship. if he really wanted to be with me, he'll do anything.
totally kidding, but what I will do is to read the signs better, maybe initiate a couple of things here and there but see if the guy will make any effort to woo me.
oh look a new message from an unsaved number...hm.
yeah, well, we will see how this goes...in the mean time:
blast this in your headphones, and walk away from the bull like a boss. Deuces, son!
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