Gentlemen...that word is hardly ever used anymore. Maybe because 'gentle men' is a rare find.And that whole feminist movement, gives women the power to initiate things first with guys. Sometimes it works, sometimes it gives guys the idea that they already got us in the bag. It is tough to live in the 21st century, and still want to be courted. Some people might not even know what that means, well according to dictionary.com:
court
[kawrt, kohrt]
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–verb (used without object)
24.
(of animals) to engage in certain species-specific behaviors inorder to attract individuals of the opposite sex for mating.
Now growing up in a Filipino household, my mom always told me stories about how men would flock to her, showering her with presents and attention for her hand in marriage. I know to some this might sound ridiculous, but I do believe guys still have the ability to do this still. In my opinion, guys use the 'equality' movement as an excuse to be lazy in a relationship. Of course us women will do our part in the relationship, but we want to see you do work too. We want to know how into us you really are, so we want to see how far you will go to catch our attention. How hard can it be to follow that?
Is it too much to ask to be wooed?
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